Well I Be Damned...
Who knew women were so perceptive. Or jealous. Obviously, I kid...I know they're both. The Advertising Chick just left in a frenzy of tears and fuck you's. Shit. What happened, you ask? Well, she came over about an hour ago and since we haven't seen each other in awhile, we decided to hang some pictures (I know, its getting old. I promise, this'll be the last time I use it). Well, afterwards, she's in the bathroom and I hear, What the FUCK is this? She comes back into the bedroom holding something in her hands...its hard to see, but it looks like long strands of dark hair...um, The Nursing Student's hair. Wow. Shit. Nothing like being de-balled in your own house, in your own bed, while lying there naked as a jaybird (yeah, yeah...un-needed imagery, I know). So I'm trying to explain that we talked about the non-exclusive nature of the relationship, but I don't think she's listening. In fact, I'm sure she isn't because she's dressing and throwing her stuff in her overnight bag. She leaves and lets me know what an insensitive prick I am. I agree with her. Ugh.
So, what did I learn from this experience?
#1 - Always clean up after one woman leaves and before another arrives.
#2 - Women are okay hearing that the relationship isn't exclusive, but they don't want evidence of the fact that you're fucking other women thrown in their face.
#3 - I am an insensitive prick.
So, what did I learn from this experience?
#1 - Always clean up after one woman leaves and before another arrives.
#2 - Women are okay hearing that the relationship isn't exclusive, but they don't want evidence of the fact that you're fucking other women thrown in their face.
#3 - I am an insensitive prick.
posted by sethro at 8:02:00 PM
5 Comments:
I pretty sure that ALL three points are very true! And then there was one.
dag.... you insensitive fuck
Dammit. Both Steve America and Jersey Paul have agreed that I am an insensitive prick. So it is written, so it is done.
Alrighty, I never give advice (yea, I tell myself that all the time) but here are some words of wisdom.
While you never told her it was exclusive, you should have informed all parties that there is other partying going on. You'd want to know, wouldn't you?
Keep in mind that you may not be saying you want to see someone exclusively, if you are doing Holly Homemaker activities with them, ie: furniture shopping; those women may get ideas. We can't help it, it is built into our genes.
Other than that, yea you like her, but it doesn't sound like you were engrossed in her, so chalk it up to experience, attempt an apology and move on. Life's lessons, baby!
BTW-Very HGTV on the living room. Nice!
Carrie, you're right. I took your advice and apologized. That said, don't think she'll be too keen sharing.
Thanks for the kudos on the living room! Who needs Queer Eye For The Straight Guy?
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